Raising Your Spirited Child, 4th Edition
Table of Contents
Greetings! | xi |
PART ONE: UNDERSTANDING SPIRIT
1 | Who Is the Spirited Child? | 3 |
2 | A Different Point of View: Building on the Strengths | 23 |
3 | Structure for Success: How Predictability Calms Everyone |
35 |
4 | What Makes Kids Spirited?: Why They Do What They Do |
42 |
5 | Matches and Mismatches: Parents and Kids Fitting Together | 64 |
PART TWO: WORKING WITH SPIRIT
6 | Extrovert or Introvert: Finding the Energy to Cope | 75 |
7 | Intensity: Defusing Your Child’s Strong Emotions | 103 |
8 | Persistence: Choosing Your Battles | 135 |
9 | Sensitivity: Understanding How They Feel | 165 |
10 | Distractible or Perceptive: Helping Them Hear You | 182 |
11 | Adaptability: Making Transitions Easier | 201 |
12 | Regularity, Energy, First Reaction, and Mood: Understanding the “Bonus” Traits | 219 |
PART THREE: LIVING WITH SPIRIT
13 | Sleep: Bedtime and Night Waking |
247 |
14 | Mealtime | 271 |
15 | Getting Dressed | 286 |
16 | Meltdowns: What to Do When Everything Falls Apart | 306 |
PART FOUR: SOCIALIZING WITH SPIRIT
17 | Getting Along with Other Kids | 333 |
18 | Holiday and Vacation Hot Spots | 354 |
19 | Success in School: Moving Out into the World | 376 |
Epilogue: The Rose in My Garden | 402 |
Acknowledgments |
405 |
Index | 409 |