When Your Child Refuses to Share
My Child Won’t Share! It’s a common concern and frequently a source of embarrassment especially when it’s your child grabbing every toy in sight and shouting, “It’s mine!”
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Welcome to the Raising Your Spirited Child page. When I first sat down to write the original version of Raising Your Spirited Child, I was a mother of little ones, teaching classes for parents through the Minnesota Early Childhood Family Education Program. At the time, I was frustrated by the existing curriculums and secretly needed to talk with other parents who understood what it was like to live with a child who could scream for thirty minutes because the toast had been cut in rectangles when triangles were expected. The kind of kid who would rather die than take no for an answer and could feel the seams in socks. The kind of kid the existing parenting books either failed to address or did so in terribly negative terms like explosive, stubborn and too emotional. Terms I was not willing to accept because I realized that re-focused and provided with a little guidance and skill training, these characteristics of intensity, tenacity and sensitivity were traits we value in adults.
In this third edition of Raising Your Spirited Child, you will find solid research based, parent tested practical strategies that truly work. Effective tools to help you keep your cool, focus on strengths, diffuse the meltdowns, establish clear limits, successfully get resistant little bodies dressed, fed, and into bed, select the best school for your child and become a problem-solving family. Chock full of real-life stories you will discover you are not alone. Thousands of other parents have worried about and potentially screamed about the same challenges you face each day. Yet through this book, and the Spirited Child Facebook group have found the tools they needed to create a family where spirit thrives.
By the way, I’m Dr Mary an internationally recognized licensed parent educator, and best-selling author with over one million books in print. My work has been translated into 24 different languages and featured on national and international media sources.
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Raising Your Spirited Baby
A breakthrough guide to thriving when your baby is alert, intense and struggles to sleep.
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In addition, Facebook has a group page started by and for the parents of "Spirited Children". The group is a closed group (but still accepting new members) where parents look for advice and support from other parents. Feel free to check it out using the link below.
Private Baby and Child Behavior and Sleep Consultations
Dr. Mary has helped hundreds of families just like yours. She provides private consultations on both infant and child behavior and sleep issues. A one-hour personal session, via phone or Zoom, gives your family an opportunity to discuss the specific issues you are facing. You will work directly with Dr. Mary to develop a targeted plan that works for your family. Within 24 hours you will receive a written summary of your discussion and your plan. If you have ever been told or considered your baby to be "fussy" or "high need", Dr. Mary can help you.
"In just one hour on the phone, we were able to gain an entirely new perspective on the issues we were having. You gave us real tools and ideas that we could apply immediately." -Jason
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For over 35 years Dr. Mary has provided parenting workshops and keynotes throughout the world. She has a large number of offerings and customizes or creates each session so that it meets the specifics needs of her audience. Dr. Mary’s speaking style brings audiences to life as they laugh and learn the essentials for effective parenting.
“Mary, I am so appreciative of how you customized your information and remarks to our audience. You brought important information to the group with humor and poise. The audience was mesmerized and we got excellent feedback.” -Merri
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Picking up the Cues: BEFORE the Meltdown
Two thirds of our “sensing cells” are in our gut – that’s why when your child wakes in the morning and you know before he’s even gotten out of bed that it’s a going to be a lousy day you get that “kick in the gut” sensation.
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When Others Judge Your Parenting
In the Spirited Child Facebook group, parents often ask, “How do you cope with the judgement from others?” One strategy is to remember you are not responsible for the feelings of other adults – that’s on them. Your responsibility is the well-being of your family. Another key strategy is to focus on what you have more control over, which is setting your child up for success in difficult situations. When you do, there will be fewer challenging behaviors for those critics to judge.
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